Insights from The Weekly REBOOT
By: Bryan Flanery
God's love for us—so immense that Jesus sacrificed everything on the cross. But love's role in our identity extends beyond divine affection; it permeates our interactions with others. According to 1 John 4:7, "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God." Notice the emphasis on mutual love: we're called to love God and each other.
Our identity influences every relationship we have—whether with family, friends, colleagues, or strangers. Reflecting on Jesus' example, it's clear that he led with love. This even sparked outrage among the Pharisees over the company he kept and the people he aided. Yet, Jesus maintained love as his guiding principle.
When we think about love, it's not just an abstract feeling. Leading with love involves forgiveness, service, and humility. True humility, as I've come to learn, isn't downplaying our achievements but serving those who have wronged us. Jesus epitomized this when he forgave and served those who crucified him—a love almost impossible to comprehend.
Let's take a moment to reflect on our personal relationships. Think about family members, friends, and acquaintances where love isn't the foundation. Perhaps someone hurt you, betrayed you, or broke your trust. Identifying these relationships is the first step in transforming them with love.
1 Corinthians 13:4-5 reminds us: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." Commonly recited at weddings, this verse challenges us to embody love's toughest attributes in our daily lives.
For many, leading with love isn't the natural response. Experiences shape us, often leading to bitterness, anger, or frustration. But if our identity is rooted in Christ—who demonstrated the ultimate act of love—our relationships should reflect this love. It calls us to forgive, to let go, even when someone seemingly doesn't deserve it.
Consider what your life would look like if anger and bitterness transformed into love. If healed relationships replaced strained ones, wouldn't life feel profoundly different? By embracing love, as described in Corinthians, we not only represent Jesus but also redefine our existence and interactions.
In a world quick to take offense and find outrage, embodying love’s humility, patience, and kindness becomes our standout feature. Throughout this series on identity, the central message is clear: our identity is founded in Jesus, and His foundation is love. This love calls us to forgive, show grace, and extend kindness, even in the face of offense.
Imagine the impact we could have if we chose to lead with love in every interaction. It’s not just rare but revolutionary. As we wrap up this series, I urge you to contemplate how adopting a love-centered identity can transform not only your relationships but your entire life.