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What Kind of Pray-er Are You?

Written by Millie Knight | May 12, 2025 4:16:54 PM

Insights from The Weekly REBOOT

By: Evan Owens

In our journey toward creating a healing environment, we've explored the idea that true healing—whether physical, emotional, or spiritual—requires more than just time. It needs intentionality and the right atmosphere. This week, we’re diving into prayer, a foundational element for sustaining a healing environment.

The Importance of Prayer

Prayer is like water to a plant: essential for growth and vitality. Yet, many of us find our prayer lives lacking. While most Christians would agree that prayer is vital, it’s easy to let it fall by the wayside amidst the busyness of life. Over time, we can even become self-reliant, substituting activity and competence for genuine communication with God.

But prayer isn’t just a religious routine; it’s a lifeline. It connects us to the ultimate source of wisdom, strength, and healing. Without it, our spiritual lives grow anemic, leaving us disconnected and weary.

So, what kind of pray-er are you? Let’s explore the four main types of prayer lives and see where you fit.

The Four Types of Pray-ers

1. The Frustrated Pray-er
This type of pray-er feels distant from God. Prayer feels repetitive, hollow, and ineffective, leading to apathy. Frustrated pray-ers often see God as too busy or uninvolved in their struggles.

Reflection: Do you feel like God is far away, or that your prayers go unanswered?

2. The Prayer Partner
These individuals are often seen as prayer warriors, interceding on behalf of others. While this is an essential role, it’s easy to fall into the trap of outsourcing your personal communication with God to others or hiding behind prayers for others while neglecting your own needs.

Reflection: Do you rely on others to pray for you instead of communicating directly with God?

3. The Self-Reliant Pray-er
Over time, Christians can become comfortable in their faith and start to lean on their own abilities instead of seeking God’s guidance. This type of pray-er prioritizes productivity over prayer, viewing it as optional rather than essential.

Reflection: Has your faith journey become more about doing than connecting with God?

4. The Praying Leader
This is the goal: a person who prioritizes prayer, seeing it as a powerful, active process. Praying leaders invite God into every aspect of their lives, trading self-sufficiency for surrender. They understand that prayer isn’t a chore—it’s a vital, ongoing conversation with the Creator.

Reflection: Are you fighting for a dynamic, vibrant prayer life that fuels your walk with God?

Prayer and Healing

Prayer is more than words; it’s a bridge to God’s power. When we open ourselves to Him through prayer, we invite His healing into our lives. Whether you’re dealing with trauma, grief, or uncertainty, prayer gives you direct access to the One who knows you intimately and desires to restore you.

Imagine having the phone number of the most influential person in the world. Now consider this: you have something even better—a direct line to God. He’s always available, always listening, and always ready to respond.

Take Action

Are you ready to grow your prayer life? Begin by reflecting on where you are and where you want to be. To help guide you, we’ve included a Prayer Guide. This simple, powerful tool follows the format of the Lord’s Prayer, offering a framework to deepen your connection with God.

Download the Prayer Guide here.

Take some time to explore the guide and start building a prayer life that transforms your healing journey. Wherever you find yourself, remember that prayer isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection. God is waiting to hear from you. Will you call?